There is no doubt that as we live, we should strive to improve our characters in order to have a "good character" or a" good personality", so we can be likeable, interesting and all people are pleased to be with us, also to reflect happiness and positivity to our surroundings ...
Also, believe in that you can choose to develop your personality either to good or bad ... strengthen and improving it is under your own control , only you who can allow you character to be enhanced.
To start developing your character, consider the following tips in your mind.
Remain flexible
Most people don't like change, and character change can
be painful and uncomfortable. When starting the character-building
process, remember that your efforts could turn out just as you planned,
better than you anticipated, worse than you expected, or just plain
different.
Solicit honest feedback about your existing character
Asking for frank
and sincere feedback requires openness and vulnerability. This means
that you can and most likely will get your feelings hurt. When this
happens, don't brood or sulk; look for truth in the feedback that can be
used to build your character-not tear it down.
Learn from your failures
Admit it and accept appropriate responsibility
for any failures you make. Do not blame others. If possible, repair any
damage, fix the problem, and set the situation right. Identify key
lessons learned from every mistake or failure for future improvement.
Make tough ethical decisions
Improving your character inevitably
requires taking a hard stand on moral issues. You may have to swallow
your pride, deal with unfairness and be unpopular when making good
decisions involving difficult issues.
Handle success properly
Success tests a person's character better than
failure does. If you define success based solely on how many
possessions you have; how much money you have in the bank, and fame or
achievements; you are in danger of weakening your character.
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